"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this a time to NEXT?

B-Real

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I have been flirting with this girl at work for about 2 weeks off and on. We'd usually just text message each other silly things to make us laugh.

Well she had a boyfriend at the time and they have been together for a long time. Well she told me today that they broke things off. So I thought to myself that this is a good sign (for me anyway) to move in.

So I told her that she is too young to be tied down and she should play the field a little while she still can. She said "yeah your right."

A few hours had passed and I was getting really bored and anxious so I texted her and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. But here is the deal. She told me she still loves whats-his-name and she just doesn't want anything to do with any boys right now at all.

So I'm thinking NEXT and not look back. Even if she does decide she wants to try it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds to me it's time for you to get a new job, she is gonna tell every girl at work you want her behind. When you hear lots of giggling, that's what they are talking about. But don't sweat, just walk up to them and poke them in the eyes..
 

realsmoothie

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B-Real said:
I have been flirting with this girl at work for about 2 weeks off and on. We'd usually just text message each other silly things to make us laugh.

Well she had a boyfriend at the time and they have been together for a long time. Well she told me today that they broke things off. So I thought to myself that this is a good sign (for me anyway) to move in.

So I told her that she is too young to be tied down and she should play the field a little while she still can. She said "yeah your right."

A few hours had passed and I was getting really bored and anxious so I texted her and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. But here is the deal. She told me she still loves whats-his-name and she just doesn't want anything to do with any boys right now at all.

So I'm thinking NEXT and not look back. Even if she does decide she wants to try it.
If she wants to try it, try it. If not, next her.

Warning... company ink is bad for your shirt.
 

B-Real

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yes I know, but I'm not wanting to sit around and wait. I beleive I have already given her a fair enough chance. I'm definately not gonna call her anymore.
 

Lust

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B-Real said:
yes I know, but I'm not wanting to sit around and wait. I beleive I have already given her a fair enough chance. I'm definately not gonna call her anymore.
Yeah, i'd just flirt around and game some other chicks outside of work.

If she figures that she is missing out, well, it's in your power to decide whether to be nice or not and give her the chance to have some fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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