"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this a test?

RedKnight04

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LOL

What up playas...

Right now I am talking to 3 girls...1 of which is moving back into town on saturday...she has a good personality but sounds kind of emotional sometimes. 1 I have another date with monday, I talk on the phone with regularly....

AND

the last one is for sure the hottest gentlemen so we know what we are dealing with...

SHYT TEST?

She called me the other night and I continued to avoid her questions, bust her chops, give her wrong anwsers, play with her....Play with my balls, oh wait my bad...

Anyhew, she told me to call her the next day and she kept telling me what I find attractive in a woman, and how my other dates went. I pretty much told her they didn't do nothing for me personality wise...Thats it, if she kept nagging, then I get C+F - I do not give out more info than needed!

Is this a test?

I called her yesturday and she didn't pick up but i know chicks like this (her voice mail is even full right now) they get called once, and then called 50 more times b/c she didn't anwser....I stayed cool and it actually came naturally...If she doesn't want to pick up oh well...but is this a test?

If it is....did I pass?

Did I fail?

Do I need to call again?

Wow I normally don't ask so many ?'s about a woman at the beginning, can you say attachment? hahaha

PEACE
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ali_g

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Yes, it's a test. I don't reckon she would have asked you what you find attractive in a woman if she weren't interested. Also she was curious (perhaps even jealous) about your other dates.

Try again, but wait a few days if you've already rung at least twice or/and left a message. I could be wrong, but my guess is she's interested.
 

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hi there.

You are doing pretty good man, and you know what you are doing. GREAT.

She is interesting on you, and, HELL YEA, she is testing you. As you said: don’t give her any direct answer. Keep busting on her.

When you called her, she didn’t answer the phone, and she knows it. She wants to see whether you are a desperate or cool. Therefore, be cool, wait her replay at least four to five days, and call her back. Meanwhile, pursue your other chicks, and always be busy.

If she asks you your previous chicks tell her that you were dating stripper or other man or 80 year young woman who got a lot of many. DON’T GIVE HER ANY DIRECT ANSWER.

Good luck man.
 

RedKnight04

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I hear you guys...I know what to do in this situation just thought I'd raise a bell to other ally cats.

I just didn't know if it was a test or how many days to wait...

Now I do!

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Let me tell you the truth, big guy.

IT'S ALL A TEST. EVERY LITTLE THING SHE SAYS TO YOU IS EITHER A TEST, OR IN PREPERATION FOR A TEST. SO BE ON YOUR GUARD AS MUCH AS YOU CAN.

And I think you pulled it off ok. So far, you seem to be doing well, at least according to your post.

So there you have it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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usually when girls want to talk on the phone and ask those "***** tests" I give vague answers and prepare to end my conversation as quickly as possible. Once they start they keep HAMMERING down. Not saying yous hould avoid phone convos because if a convo is good and you notice there is little game being played out (an actual discussion by a girl) then that's ok. Just remember to keep any "long convos" to 30 min max.
 
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