"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is This A Test Or Some Other Bull****

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I went on a date with this girl that I have known for a while. This girl has been showing alot of IOI and verbally told me shes interested in me.
Everything was going great. ****y, funny flirting working its charm(or mine). Anyway in the middle of the flirting she decides to get all serious. The other week a friend of mine cheated (kissed) on his girlfriend and the girl Im dating witnessed this so did I funnily enough. She wasn't too happy he did this on his girlfriend.

She then asked me hypothetically (always is isn't it) "what if my friend broke up with his girlfriend and my other friend started to date her what would I think about this"....I told her honestly that I couldn't go out with a girl if her previous boyfriend was always around. That I need 100% percent of her attention and knowing their history together I could never be sure.

She then asked would I think the girl was "damaged goods"(the key word here) because of this.

She then told me she really hates that phrase and that shes been hearing it alot lately....

Now I know that this girl broke up with her boyfriend few months back and is just starting to get back into dating so it isnt too much of a stretch to think she is talking about herself in some way.

Im just wondering is this a test of me or is she just venting?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kino, and switch topics. You are losing the frame if you let her go on like this. You got to get her back to a topic that has her feeling good. Otherwise she'll associate you with the bad feelings she's discussing.
 
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mmm that crossed my mind so I started talking about a video of animals I saw on youtube(smiles all around). I seem to have gotten my answer that it was a test. I basically let her know that slut behavior doesnt gel with me in a very vague way also held her hands checking out her rings. I think this girl is afraid of guys at the moment and shes just over testing to make sure Im not an *******....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kino, and switch topics. You are losing the frame if you let her go on like this. You got to get her back to a topic that has her feeling good. Otherwise she'll associate you with the bad feelings she's discussing.
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I just had a brain wave...wouldn't kino be bad right then by maybe "anchoring" this topic to my touch(sorry crazy thought)
 
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