"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is this a sign of interest?

DarkStephen

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I noticed that when I make eye contact with a girl, there are a few common ways they react. One is they look away without any emotion on their face (usually gives me a feeling that she's a *****), another is they smile shyly and look away. Both of these methods give me an impression that the girl isn't interested. Now there are a few other ways they react that don't seem that uncommon, and I'm interested in trying to figure them out. One is when they glance at you but once noticing that you make eye contact as well quickly drop their eyes to the ground, as if ashamed. And another one that I'm particularly curoius about is when a girl makes a big sincere smile that shows all her teeth when I make eye contact with her, then lowers her eyes and keeps staring at the floor. Is this a big sign that she's interested, or is it common for them to do this when they aren't interested?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GrantsGhost

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I have to say, if they smile back, it is good sign. They turn their gaze away because the are coy, not necessarily shows disinterest. When you make eye contact, I assume that you also smile, right?
 

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A great way to find out for sure, is if you approached each time regardless of her reaction to eye contact.

Then you would have first-hand knowledge of what reactions are the most indicative of interest.

:D
 

Jack McCrack

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Another AWESOME thing is when they DO A DOUBLE-TAKE when you look at them.

I've often come across a few gals that break eye contact then quickly snap back a second later!
 

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I would say the smile and looks toward the ground are the most likely to show interest, but almost any looks can still means she has interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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D^G4m3

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All these seems to show she'z interested.
Well here r some tips that will help ya. Nex time you make an eye contact, and if she does;
:) = She sure seems to appreciate your EC, cool
:D = She is feeling uneasy, look away for sometime.
:rolleyes: = she is playful, play along Dude!
:( = wtf!!...next!!
:crackup: = o'mama m sure thats cool
:eek: = duh, man u don't wnna try do dat again to her, r ya
:mad: = So, she demands respect..lmao...bow down to her like a japanese, but don't come up empty handed, pull her skirts up on the way
:cheer: = yeah,yeah...go grab that silly ass and say, cheers!!
 

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Re: Re: is this a sign of interest?

Originally posted by D^G4m3
All these seems to show she'z interested.
Well here r some tips that will help ya. Nex time you make an eye contact, and if she does;
:) = She sure seems to appreciate your EC, cool
:D = She is feeling uneasy, look away for sometime.
:rolleyes: = she is playful, play along Dude!
:( = wtf!!...next!!
:crackup: = o'mama m sure thats cool
:eek: = duh, man u don't wnna try do dat again to her, r ya
:mad: = So, she demands respect..lmao...bow down to her like a japanese, but don't come up empty handed, pull her skirts up on the way
:cheer: = yeah,yeah...go grab that silly ass and say, cheers!!
lol.
 

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wrong... on some degree
when im interested, sometimes i have to look at the ground to not look so utterly interested.

listen for the voice tone, and look for a smile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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