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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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is this a sign of interest?

DarkStephen

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I noticed that when I make eye contact with a girl, there are a few common ways they react. One is they look away without any emotion on their face (usually gives me a feeling that she's a *****), another is they smile shyly and look away. Both of these methods give me an impression that the girl isn't interested. Now there are a few other ways they react that don't seem that uncommon, and I'm interested in trying to figure them out. One is when they glance at you but once noticing that you make eye contact as well quickly drop their eyes to the ground, as if ashamed. And another one that I'm particularly curoius about is when a girl makes a big sincere smile that shows all her teeth when I make eye contact with her, then lowers her eyes and keeps staring at the floor. Is this a big sign that she's interested, or is it common for them to do this when they aren't interested?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have to say, if they smile back, it is good sign. They turn their gaze away because the are coy, not necessarily shows disinterest. When you make eye contact, I assume that you also smile, right?
 

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A great way to find out for sure, is if you approached each time regardless of her reaction to eye contact.

Then you would have first-hand knowledge of what reactions are the most indicative of interest.

:D
 

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Another AWESOME thing is when they DO A DOUBLE-TAKE when you look at them.

I've often come across a few gals that break eye contact then quickly snap back a second later!
 

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I would say the smile and looks toward the ground are the most likely to show interest, but almost any looks can still means she has interest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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D^G4m3

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All these seems to show she'z interested.
Well here r some tips that will help ya. Nex time you make an eye contact, and if she does;
:) = She sure seems to appreciate your EC, cool
:D = She is feeling uneasy, look away for sometime.
:rolleyes: = she is playful, play along Dude!
:( = wtf!!...next!!
:crackup: = o'mama m sure thats cool
:eek: = duh, man u don't wnna try do dat again to her, r ya
:mad: = So, she demands respect..lmao...bow down to her like a japanese, but don't come up empty handed, pull her skirts up on the way
:cheer: = yeah,yeah...go grab that silly ass and say, cheers!!
 

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Re: Re: is this a sign of interest?

Originally posted by D^G4m3
All these seems to show she'z interested.
Well here r some tips that will help ya. Nex time you make an eye contact, and if she does;
:) = She sure seems to appreciate your EC, cool
:D = She is feeling uneasy, look away for sometime.
:rolleyes: = she is playful, play along Dude!
:( = wtf!!...next!!
:crackup: = o'mama m sure thats cool
:eek: = duh, man u don't wnna try do dat again to her, r ya
:mad: = So, she demands respect..lmao...bow down to her like a japanese, but don't come up empty handed, pull her skirts up on the way
:cheer: = yeah,yeah...go grab that silly ass and say, cheers!!
lol.
 

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wrong... on some degree
when im interested, sometimes i have to look at the ground to not look so utterly interested.

listen for the voice tone, and look for a smile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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