"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is this a scam?

joe bloggs

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I'm corresponding with a girl I met on a dating website, but I'm a little bit suspicious about whether she is genuine. She looks attractive, but not unrealistically so, and she claims to be living in Arizona and planning to move to my city soon but a few things have raised my suspicions:

- Ungrammatical and disjointed English (a bit like the comedy character Borat) despite her claims to be a RN. Sometimes she says things that don't make any sense, for instance asking me for a picture when I sent one in my previous email.
- Despite the fact that she's given me her first and last names and town I can't find her on the Arizona RN database
- Very short replies to my questions.
- Currently lives in Arizona and claims that she is planning to move to my town in New England.
- Wants to get me chatting to her through Yahoo chat rather than email.

Am I just being a little bit paranoid?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude U already answered your own question.......U know its a scam

and why exactly do u desire to meet this un-attractive, non-educated, Foreigner?

Wheres your motivation in meeting a person like this. I suspect you are either bored and posting on here to kill time or really niave?

FOR ALL OF YOU NEWBIES READING THIS............FOR THE LAST TIME...................

LEARN THE SKILLS FOR NET DATING........STOP JUST GETTING SUCKED IN AND CONTACTING WOMEN IF U AINT GOT SKILLS. WHY.........

cause its the difference between climbing a mountain to get to the top and HAVING A JET PACK ROCKET BOOSTER 2 FLY U TO THE TOP.

BECOMING AN ONLINE PICKUP ARTIST REQUIRES SKILLS, TIME AND MOST OF ALL KNOWLEDGE..........any smuck, wussified wannabe can post a picture and contact their fantasy girl.......ONLY VIRTUAL PICKUP ARTISTS pick and choose whom they desire to sleep with.

Seriously theres a science to net dating........well being successful that is.
 

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COD said:
Dude U already answered your own question.......U know its a scam

and why exactly do u desire to meet this un-attractive, non-educated, Foreigner?

Wheres your motivation in meeting a person like this. I suspect you are either bored and posting on here to kill time or really niave?

FOR ALL OF YOU NEWBIES READING THIS............FOR THE LAST TIME...................

LEARN THE SKILLS FOR NET DATING........STOP JUST GETTING SUCKED IN AND CONTACTING WOMEN IF U AINT GOT SKILLS. WHY.........

cause its the difference between climbing a mountain to get to the top and HAVING A JET PACK ROCKET BOOSTER 2 FLY U TO THE TOP.

BECOMING AN ONLINE PICKUP ARTIST REQUIRES SKILLS, TIME AND MOST OF ALL KNOWLEDGE..........any smuck, wussified wannabe can post a picture and contact their fantasy girl.......ONLY VIRTUAL PICKUP ARTISTS pick and choose whom they desire to sleep with.

Seriously theres a science to net dating........well being successful that is.
Spend your time on real dating?
 

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I'm not naive - otherwise I wouldn't have posted here. Given that most people seem to agree that it is a scam I obviously won't be contacting her again. Anyway, I've had quite a few replies to my internet ad, some of whom seem to be genuine (and one works at a local bank).

I just asked a question - no need to be rude!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yo ease up grasshopper........theres a ton of men on here discovering the internet dating game. The reply was generic to all men just jumping on to the net thinking they got game.

I have said it a 100 X so I will repeat it again........NET DATING IS THE LOWEST FORM OF A PICKUP ARTIST ARSENAL. No need to go into the reasons why that is....it just is. IT SHOULD ONLY BE USED AS A LAST RESORT OR A STARTING PLACE.........thats it. If you rely on it as your primary source then might as well become an expert an really make it work for you.

IF I came across as rude its just that I see questions similar to this over and over.......people come on here read a few tips than RARELY adopt the advice FROM EXPERIENCED PU ARTISTS.

SHARE YOUR SUCCESS STORIES, ASK A QUESTION THATS NOT RETORICAL, SHARE A TIP OF YOUR OWN that works in most cases. Dispense advice to help others so that the community combined becomes stronger.

NUFF SAID........now go bang some chics and stop wasting time online!!!
 
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