My flat mate met this girl on the internet and got her to the house and had sex with her( this was about 2 weeks ago). This girl constantly called him, wanted to come see him all the time, told him she loved him and all that crap but he wasnt interested so never returned her calls and she just kept phoning constantly. Now he is away on holiday for 2 weeks and yesturday she phoned me asking me to go out a drink with her and her friends - i refused and thought that was the end of it. Then i get a txt msg to my house fone tellin me her number incase i change my mind - i never changed my mind as i think the girl is a bit of a nut. This morning at 4am! i get a phone call from her asking if she can come see me and if i could pick her up i replied no i have been drinking maybe some other time and she said can i come see your 2mrw i really have to see you i said i think im busy 2mrw and said look i have to go im really tired. I went back to sleep and she foned again at 6am and then again at 10am i ignored the phone. Today i went out to the gym came back done 1471 ( to check who was the last person to phone) and its her number again - please advise how i lose this psycho.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
is this a psycho
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Restraining order, or bang her.
I think that soon or later, the guy is going to give in and just bang her. That is what is so great about us guys; we do a service to society by ensuring that a horny girl gets her sexual needs satisfied. It is so sad that it does not work in the opposite direction; no matter how much you beg and chase her, you'll never get that measly fu<k for just one night.
I pulled a one nighter with a chick and she pulled the same kind of stuff afterwards. The weird part about your story is that she is now after you and you weren't even the one that banged her. Ignore her man, make sure to program "Ahhhhhhh! Dont answer!" as the name for her # in your cell.
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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How to tell if you're dating a psycho girl:
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.