My flat mate met this girl on the internet and got her to the house and had sex with her( this was about 2 weeks ago). This girl constantly called him, wanted to come see him all the time, told him she loved him and all that crap but he wasnt interested so never returned her calls and she just kept phoning constantly. Now he is away on holiday for 2 weeks and yesturday she phoned me asking me to go out a drink with her and her friends - i refused and thought that was the end of it. Then i get a txt msg to my house fone tellin me her number incase i change my mind - i never changed my mind as i think the girl is a bit of a nut. This morning at 4am! i get a phone call from her asking if she can come see me and if i could pick her up i replied no i have been drinking maybe some other time and she said can i come see your 2mrw i really have to see you i said i think im busy 2mrw and said look i have to go im really tired. I went back to sleep and she foned again at 6am and then again at 10am i ignored the phone. Today i went out to the gym came back done 1471 ( to check who was the last person to phone) and its her number again - please advise how i lose this psycho.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Restraining order, or bang her.
I think that soon or later, the guy is going to give in and just bang her. That is what is so great about us guys; we do a service to society by ensuring that a horny girl gets her sexual needs satisfied. It is so sad that it does not work in the opposite direction; no matter how much you beg and chase her, you'll never get that measly fu<k for just one night.
I pulled a one nighter with a chick and she pulled the same kind of stuff afterwards. The weird part about your story is that she is now after you and you weren't even the one that banged her. Ignore her man, make sure to program "Ahhhhhhh! Dont answer!" as the name for her # in your cell.
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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How to tell if you're dating a psycho girl:
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.