My flat mate met this girl on the internet and got her to the house and had sex with her( this was about 2 weeks ago). This girl constantly called him, wanted to come see him all the time, told him she loved him and all that crap but he wasnt interested so never returned her calls and she just kept phoning constantly. Now he is away on holiday for 2 weeks and yesturday she phoned me asking me to go out a drink with her and her friends - i refused and thought that was the end of it. Then i get a txt msg to my house fone tellin me her number incase i change my mind - i never changed my mind as i think the girl is a bit of a nut. This morning at 4am! i get a phone call from her asking if she can come see me and if i could pick her up i replied no i have been drinking maybe some other time and she said can i come see your 2mrw i really have to see you i said i think im busy 2mrw and said look i have to go im really tired. I went back to sleep and she foned again at 6am and then again at 10am i ignored the phone. Today i went out to the gym came back done 1471 ( to check who was the last person to phone) and its her number again - please advise how i lose this psycho.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
is this a psycho
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Restraining order, or bang her.
I think that soon or later, the guy is going to give in and just bang her. That is what is so great about us guys; we do a service to society by ensuring that a horny girl gets her sexual needs satisfied. It is so sad that it does not work in the opposite direction; no matter how much you beg and chase her, you'll never get that measly fu<k for just one night.
I pulled a one nighter with a chick and she pulled the same kind of stuff afterwards. The weird part about your story is that she is now after you and you weren't even the one that banged her. Ignore her man, make sure to program "Ahhhhhhh! Dont answer!" as the name for her # in your cell.
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
If you see her, use a blatantly obvious excuse to have to go, like "I cant talk right now because I have to go return some video tapes or something, cya!" Then run away!
You could definitely hit it if you want to, but that level of psychoticness sounds too scary!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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How to tell if you're dating a psycho girl:
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.
1. Constantly contacts you. (Once a day is fine, 2-3 times is not unless you plan to see her that same day.) 2 emails = 1 phone call equivalent.
2. Insanely jealous. If she gets verbally mad that you look at other women or during a discussion, she brings it up and makes you feel bad about the entire ordeal just because you simply looked.
3. Mind games or the one that flips out from normal to makes you feel like walking on eggshell feeling.