"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this a normal thing? WTF

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I met this girl at a bar through another girl I know. She initiated dancing, conversation and invited me to an afterparty with her and her friends after a half hour or so. I was sober so I gave them a ride there. It kind of sucked so we ended up back at her place fairly quickly. We ended up hooking up, but I forgot a condom and she wasn't down for the bj... so I left. The next day she texts me and asks me what I'm doing that night. Then it goes like this -

Chick: You should meet my friend *****

Me: Ok. Why? haha

Chick: She thinks you're cuteeeeeee

Me: Ok

Chick: Yeah!?

Me: Yeah

ChicK: Wanna party with us tonight?

Me: K


Long story short I go to her place and meet her friend. She's not attractive at all but her other friend (not bad but a little chubby. meh) keeps flirting with me. We go to the party, their other friend keeps offering me shots and I stupidly get SH1TFACED drunk. This girl keeps hanging around me all night and we end up hooking up. I didn't f*ck her cuz I sobered up and decided I should get out of there.

Have you guys experienced anything similar to this?
Do a lot of girls "share" like this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desperation can do more than that and especially when it comes to average and below average/fat/fugly girls because they can't live without attention and you were just someone who they thought will make a good shot of attention at that time.
next time don't agree to meet a girl that you haven't seen or didn't pick up by your own!
 
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Or it was a test you won/failed! What I mean is, you won it because you said you had no problem meeting another girl, so she was not THAT important to you, but then you failed by hooking up with this other girl which as I understood is worst than "chick".
 
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NEVER let yourself get hooked up by someone.....it never turns out well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GETTING hooked up and having others introduce you to other girlfriends are two different things.

I have banged when initially approaching a girl who I was interested in but was married and introduced me to one of her friends.

You just didn't seal any deal from that opportune moment.

Come on man. Get back into the game!
 
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