"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a normal thing? WTF

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I met this girl at a bar through another girl I know. She initiated dancing, conversation and invited me to an afterparty with her and her friends after a half hour or so. I was sober so I gave them a ride there. It kind of sucked so we ended up back at her place fairly quickly. We ended up hooking up, but I forgot a condom and she wasn't down for the bj... so I left. The next day she texts me and asks me what I'm doing that night. Then it goes like this -

Chick: You should meet my friend *****

Me: Ok. Why? haha

Chick: She thinks you're cuteeeeeee

Me: Ok

Chick: Yeah!?

Me: Yeah

ChicK: Wanna party with us tonight?

Me: K


Long story short I go to her place and meet her friend. She's not attractive at all but her other friend (not bad but a little chubby. meh) keeps flirting with me. We go to the party, their other friend keeps offering me shots and I stupidly get SH1TFACED drunk. This girl keeps hanging around me all night and we end up hooking up. I didn't f*ck her cuz I sobered up and decided I should get out of there.

Have you guys experienced anything similar to this?
Do a lot of girls "share" like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desperation can do more than that and especially when it comes to average and below average/fat/fugly girls because they can't live without attention and you were just someone who they thought will make a good shot of attention at that time.
next time don't agree to meet a girl that you haven't seen or didn't pick up by your own!
 
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Or it was a test you won/failed! What I mean is, you won it because you said you had no problem meeting another girl, so she was not THAT important to you, but then you failed by hooking up with this other girl which as I understood is worst than "chick".
 
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NEVER let yourself get hooked up by someone.....it never turns out well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GETTING hooked up and having others introduce you to other girlfriends are two different things.

I have banged when initially approaching a girl who I was interested in but was married and introduced me to one of her friends.

You just didn't seal any deal from that opportune moment.

Come on man. Get back into the game!
 
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