"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this a nexting?

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malliotjaune

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Ok i've been working on this girl from work for a week or so, been to lunch a few times (at work), we all went out for drinks after work yesterday and we really get on.

I asked her out twice now and she said no both times but they were because 1) She was seeing her sister for the first time in a while and 2) She plays squash in a league on tuesdays. Now she's out of town for a few days...

Is it worth nexting her? Or do I persevere until I find a night that we're both free?

Cheers guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Finlay

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Ask her when shes free next, if she not , then u should be able to tell by now if shes playing you for a fool or not.

If she is free sometime, pretend you are not, and say well let take your numbner ill call you one night when i am free, she will love the spontaniety.
 
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willysquared

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If you had more options, you wouldn't have to next her. You could be going out with other girls on the nights that she isn't free. Just something to think about! ;)
 
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If she didn't give you an alternate day/time, revert back to no-communication mode. But if she does, be careful that you don't let her call all the shots for choice of activity or location.
 
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