"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this a nexting?

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malliotjaune

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Ok i've been working on this girl from work for a week or so, been to lunch a few times (at work), we all went out for drinks after work yesterday and we really get on.

I asked her out twice now and she said no both times but they were because 1) She was seeing her sister for the first time in a while and 2) She plays squash in a league on tuesdays. Now she's out of town for a few days...

Is it worth nexting her? Or do I persevere until I find a night that we're both free?

Cheers guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ask her when shes free next, if she not , then u should be able to tell by now if shes playing you for a fool or not.

If she is free sometime, pretend you are not, and say well let take your numbner ill call you one night when i am free, she will love the spontaniety.
 
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If you had more options, you wouldn't have to next her. You could be going out with other girls on the nights that she isn't free. Just something to think about! ;)
 
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If she didn't give you an alternate day/time, revert back to no-communication mode. But if she does, be careful that you don't let her call all the shots for choice of activity or location.
 
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