"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this a nexting?

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malliotjaune

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Ok i've been working on this girl from work for a week or so, been to lunch a few times (at work), we all went out for drinks after work yesterday and we really get on.

I asked her out twice now and she said no both times but they were because 1) She was seeing her sister for the first time in a while and 2) She plays squash in a league on tuesdays. Now she's out of town for a few days...

Is it worth nexting her? Or do I persevere until I find a night that we're both free?

Cheers guys
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Finlay

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Ask her when shes free next, if she not , then u should be able to tell by now if shes playing you for a fool or not.

If she is free sometime, pretend you are not, and say well let take your numbner ill call you one night when i am free, she will love the spontaniety.
 
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If you had more options, you wouldn't have to next her. You could be going out with other girls on the nights that she isn't free. Just something to think about! ;)
 
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If she didn't give you an alternate day/time, revert back to no-communication mode. But if she does, be careful that you don't let her call all the shots for choice of activity or location.
 
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