"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this a NEXT?

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Ok guys I need your professional opinion on this matter. So I started talking to this one girl who I asked to come out with me for a new year eve party. We knew eachother from a while back and she really enjoyed my company back then as I did hers but I was way too busy to talk to her much and I finally contacted her. It was a good night n all but I got c@ckblocked by her sister at the party so I haven't initiated any sexual advances that night. Before we all parted I asked her to come with me to another event this friday she agreed, we hugged and I went home. I just texted her today saying "don't forget about Friday :)" since I'm a busy guy I couldn't text her sooner. She came back with "forgot to tell you I can't make it this Friday, sorry" I said alright that's cool, I'll see u around. To what she replys"what u mean" I said. "next time u wanna do something hit me up" this is a total next isn't it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For how long did you guys hang out before?

I would ask her again in a week or so.
 
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I don't get it.

Why would you NEXT a girl after this? It's just one turn-down. Maybe she's a flake. Maybe she really can't make it.

Gotta try one more time.
 
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Yeah it's only once. I normally give girls 2 chances before I next them. Forget the third my view is if a girl flakes on the first time and she is keen on you, she will definately make the second.
 
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Iceberg said:
I don't get it.

Why would you NEXT a girl after this? It's just one turn-down. Maybe she's a flake. Maybe she really can't make it.

Gotta try one more time.
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Good reply, however I hate wasting my precious time on flakes. Here's a question for you, what are your thoughts on a girl choosing a different event over you even if you asked her first?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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exile663dfx said:
Good reply, however I hate wasting my precious time on flakes. Here's a question for you, what are your thoughts on a girl choosing a different event over you even if you asked her first?
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low IL or playing games
 
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