"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a NEXT?

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exile663dfx

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Ok guys I need your professional opinion on this matter. So I started talking to this one girl who I asked to come out with me for a new year eve party. We knew eachother from a while back and she really enjoyed my company back then as I did hers but I was way too busy to talk to her much and I finally contacted her. It was a good night n all but I got c@ckblocked by her sister at the party so I haven't initiated any sexual advances that night. Before we all parted I asked her to come with me to another event this friday she agreed, we hugged and I went home. I just texted her today saying "don't forget about Friday :)" since I'm a busy guy I couldn't text her sooner. She came back with "forgot to tell you I can't make it this Friday, sorry" I said alright that's cool, I'll see u around. To what she replys"what u mean" I said. "next time u wanna do something hit me up" this is a total next isn't it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Websterdic

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For how long did you guys hang out before?

I would ask her again in a week or so.
 
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I don't get it.

Why would you NEXT a girl after this? It's just one turn-down. Maybe she's a flake. Maybe she really can't make it.

Gotta try one more time.
 
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Yeah it's only once. I normally give girls 2 chances before I next them. Forget the third my view is if a girl flakes on the first time and she is keen on you, she will definately make the second.
 
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Iceberg said:
I don't get it.

Why would you NEXT a girl after this? It's just one turn-down. Maybe she's a flake. Maybe she really can't make it.

Gotta try one more time.
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Good reply, however I hate wasting my precious time on flakes. Here's a question for you, what are your thoughts on a girl choosing a different event over you even if you asked her first?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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exile663dfx said:
Good reply, however I hate wasting my precious time on flakes. Here's a question for you, what are your thoughts on a girl choosing a different event over you even if you asked her first?
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low IL or playing games
 
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