"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is this a neg hit or insult

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UMMMMMMMM


IT DEPENDS ON THE GIRL'S REACTION??? AND YES ITS AN INSULT. I WOULD'VE TITTY-SLAPPED YOU IF YOU SAID THAT.
 

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hmm definitely an insult and very risky if you want to pick up the girl. It'd make a good story to tell your friends if you did it tho, and It'd be fun to see what she says:p
 

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i think you need some more humor in there.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That is an insult. Not a good way to pick up a girl. Neg hits are not meant to offend the other person. The neg hit is used to break her B1tch shield. that transexual joke offended her and probably turned her off. A neg hit is more like "You have nice eyes, but you wear way too much eye liner" or "That's a nice outfit, but red is not your color."

Hhahah .....Yeah Protector I dont mind getting slap by titties either.
 

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The difference between a "neg-hit" and an insult is more in HOW you say it than what you say.

That being said, 19 out of 20 times, what you just said will be an insult. And if you have to ask, it's an insult.

I told a girl she had a face like a guy I work with once. I got her number later that night (she never answered, but she said she was already seeing someone :D )
 

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A NEG IS A STATEMENT THAT USES A COMPLIMENT + PUSH/PULL THEORY.....

You have beatiful eyes (compliment).....especially the left one (push/pull - C+F)
 

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i think you would need mad rapport with the chick to let this one fly, but you need more humour, like

"your legs are so smooth...for a drag queen", i dunno, push pull is key, compliment, give it the perfect pause, then whammo!

sexuality and general orientation is generally a pretty sensitive topic with people you just met, use your common sense
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
The difference between a "neg-hit" and an insult is more in HOW you say it than what you say.

That being said, 19 out of 20 times, what you just said will be an insult. And if you have to ask, it's an insult.

I told a girl she had a face like a guy I work with once. I got her number later that night (she never answered, but she said she was already seeing someone :D )
haha i love it... sort of ambiguous... sort of an insult... perfect. now she doesn't know what to make of it. im borrowing that one:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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