"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this a good thing?!

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So, I was talking to this girl that I met at the mall the other day and she says, "... you know what i've realized? you know too much about women... its kinda freaking me out. and it makes me feel typical."

Is this a good thing or a bad thing when a woman tells you this? I've never actually heard this before? I've heard "you know a lot about women" from women, but never "It's kinda freaking me out" after.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's probably more good than bad. No biggie, though. Act modest and unassuming about it. Don't say "yeah there's this website sosuave.net that teaches me how to get laid."
 
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lol. I wouldn't tell her our little secret. :) Besides, most of what I know doesn't come from this website.

Edit: Damn, this woman has it bad for me.
 
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