"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a good thing?!

thederekeffect1

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So, I was talking to this girl that I met at the mall the other day and she says, "... you know what i've realized? you know too much about women... its kinda freaking me out. and it makes me feel typical."

Is this a good thing or a bad thing when a woman tells you this? I've never actually heard this before? I've heard "you know a lot about women" from women, but never "It's kinda freaking me out" after.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's probably more good than bad. No biggie, though. Act modest and unassuming about it. Don't say "yeah there's this website sosuave.net that teaches me how to get laid."
 

thederekeffect1

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lol. I wouldn't tell her our little secret. :) Besides, most of what I know doesn't come from this website.

Edit: Damn, this woman has it bad for me.
 
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