"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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coolness89

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So I was wondering, lets say some girl is playing hard to get..would it be a good idea while having a conversation with her to say :

"yea...u look cute which is why im hittin on u, but u always play hard to get.."

essentially what I'm trying to ask is, would it be a good idea to tell a girl you're hitting on her/u find her cute/sexy etc. This is not a club scene environment...more of a college environment. And also this would occur somewhere in between a convo, naturally...i wouldn't blurt it out randomly lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ucmedv8

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The playfulness is good, but I think it's way too aggressive and places you in the palm of her hand. Flip it around by convincing her that she's hitting on you. She should see you as the ultimate prize that all girls should want to be with. Good luck!:rockon:
 
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You COULD do that...it depends on the girl... If youve built enough rapport and she knows youre sexually interested then its okay to say, jus make sure you say it with a sly smile.

However it may come off as too direct. Scare her away, especially if youve just recently met her.

What you could also do is to slip something like that in while qualifying her. When making sure shes up to your standards of pursuing, and she meets one, you could throw in a "thats sexy" to let her know youre judging based on that standard. It also lets her know that you do in fact actually have standards and wont sleep with just any chick. Remember, you da man :cool:

thats my 2 cents...

~WA
 
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