"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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coolness89

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So I was wondering, lets say some girl is playing hard to get..would it be a good idea while having a conversation with her to say :

"yea...u look cute which is why im hittin on u, but u always play hard to get.."

essentially what I'm trying to ask is, would it be a good idea to tell a girl you're hitting on her/u find her cute/sexy etc. This is not a club scene environment...more of a college environment. And also this would occur somewhere in between a convo, naturally...i wouldn't blurt it out randomly lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ucmedv8

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The playfulness is good, but I think it's way too aggressive and places you in the palm of her hand. Flip it around by convincing her that she's hitting on you. She should see you as the ultimate prize that all girls should want to be with. Good luck!:rockon:
 
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You COULD do that...it depends on the girl... If youve built enough rapport and she knows youre sexually interested then its okay to say, jus make sure you say it with a sly smile.

However it may come off as too direct. Scare her away, especially if youve just recently met her.

What you could also do is to slip something like that in while qualifying her. When making sure shes up to your standards of pursuing, and she meets one, you could throw in a "thats sexy" to let her know youre judging based on that standard. It also lets her know that you do in fact actually have standards and wont sleep with just any chick. Remember, you da man :cool:

thats my 2 cents...

~WA
 
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