Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this a good tactic?

Htienvu

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Foreplay with her to get her horny then slow it down to a full stop, to show her that you don't really need sex. Is it a good tactic to get them thinking and chase you for it?

Has anyone tried this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Htienvu said:
Foreplay with her to get her horny then slow it down to a full stop, to show her that you don't really need sex. Is it a good tactic to get them thinking and chase you for it?

Has anyone tried this?
If I've got her naked, wet, and ready to go, I'm not worried about "showing her" anything other than my peen.

Wouldn't this be similar to running a race, getting ahead of the pack, and then stopping just to show that you don't really need to win?

Is this one of those situations where the girl is hooking up with you, and then stopping you with some Anti-S1ut Defense stuff?
 

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Iceberg said:
If I've got her naked, wet, and ready to go, I'm not worried about "showing her" anything other than my peen.

Wouldn't this be similar to running a race, getting ahead of the pack, and then stopping just to show that you don't really need to win?

Is this one of those situations where the girl is hooking up with you, and then stopping you with some Anti-S1ut Defense stuff?
Not really, this is after we had done it, she said that she doesn't really get the urge to. Saying that sex is to please the guy, even though she was soaking wet. I just want to try it out and see how a girl would react to it, kinda turning their weapon against them. I've tried it with kissing, she literally grabbed me to get the kiss.
 

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slower n steady wins the race..it's a very cruel tactic, I can say that I have used it before and she started to get a little shaken up by it from what i could tell...but eventualy I got laid.
 
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