"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is this a good tactic?

Htienvu

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Foreplay with her to get her horny then slow it down to a full stop, to show her that you don't really need sex. Is it a good tactic to get them thinking and chase you for it?

Has anyone tried this?
 

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Htienvu said:
Foreplay with her to get her horny then slow it down to a full stop, to show her that you don't really need sex. Is it a good tactic to get them thinking and chase you for it?

Has anyone tried this?
If I've got her naked, wet, and ready to go, I'm not worried about "showing her" anything other than my peen.

Wouldn't this be similar to running a race, getting ahead of the pack, and then stopping just to show that you don't really need to win?

Is this one of those situations where the girl is hooking up with you, and then stopping you with some Anti-S1ut Defense stuff?
 

Htienvu

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Iceberg said:
If I've got her naked, wet, and ready to go, I'm not worried about "showing her" anything other than my peen.

Wouldn't this be similar to running a race, getting ahead of the pack, and then stopping just to show that you don't really need to win?

Is this one of those situations where the girl is hooking up with you, and then stopping you with some Anti-S1ut Defense stuff?
Not really, this is after we had done it, she said that she doesn't really get the urge to. Saying that sex is to please the guy, even though she was soaking wet. I just want to try it out and see how a girl would react to it, kinda turning their weapon against them. I've tried it with kissing, she literally grabbed me to get the kiss.
 

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slower n steady wins the race..it's a very cruel tactic, I can say that I have used it before and she started to get a little shaken up by it from what i could tell...but eventualy I got laid.
 
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