Is this a good starting tool??

[CapedCrusader08]

Look, all this thinking and searching has led me to realize, I gotta get this part of my life covered. It's making me miserable. Part of it is this feeling of everything being stacked against me, cause I am not the person I want to be. But after seeing the vids,and shows, I realize, I gotta get this done now. I could have gotten done a long time ago, and that's hard for me to get over, esp not being in better shape. I don't know how much that affects me, but that's a whole nother debate. Anyways, should I follow this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oc6WvllWKA&feature=related

 

[theunflushables]

Caped, I say this to help you, (and if any of this sounds rude, I apologize, I've had 4 pints of Guinness and a shot of Jack tonight in the space of an hour) but you can not be a leader and a follower at the same time.

You've had other posts where you ask if you should follow this or follow that. I say, don't fvcking follow anything except for your own ambition. How the hell can you be an alpha when you are following Mystery, Lykis, Pook, the Bible (both DJ and Christian), your parents or your teachers? All you are saying is "hey world, look at me! I can't make a decision for myself so I let others tell me how to act!"

Yes, learn from people and take their ideas as your own, but do not follow any of it blindly. It won't lead to happiness, enlightenment or pvssy. Form your own perception of reality.

Remember the saying from the Buddah. "If you see your master on the road, kill him."

 

[2.0]

I watched that whole video and I'm a bit confused. I don't think he really explains things clearly enough.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

If you think I am saying who should I follow, you are wrong. I have a tendency to see people as followers anyways. I am looking for what works and what doesn't. I have been trying to figure all this out for a long time, whereas it doesn't seem as hard for others. I do have my own sense of reality, albeit a negative one most of the time.