"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this a good starting tool??

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Look, all this thinking and searching has led me to realize, I gotta get this part of my life covered. It's making me miserable. Part of it is this feeling of everything being stacked against me, cause I am not the person I want to be. But after seeing the vids,and shows, I realize, I gotta get this done now. I could have gotten done a long time ago, and that's hard for me to get over, esp not being in better shape. I don't know how much that affects me, but that's a whole nother debate. Anyways, should I follow this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oc6WvllWKA&feature=related
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Caped, I say this to help you, (and if any of this sounds rude, I apologize, I've had 4 pints of Guinness and a shot of Jack tonight in the space of an hour) but you can not be a leader and a follower at the same time.

You've had other posts where you ask if you should follow this or follow that. I say, don't fvcking follow anything except for your own ambition. How the hell can you be an alpha when you are following Mystery, Lykis, Pook, the Bible (both DJ and Christian), your parents or your teachers? All you are saying is "hey world, look at me! I can't make a decision for myself so I let others tell me how to act!"

Yes, learn from people and take their ideas as your own, but do not follow any of it blindly. It won't lead to happiness, enlightenment or pvssy. Form your own perception of reality.

Remember the saying from the Buddah. "If you see your master on the road, kill him."
 

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I watched that whole video and I'm a bit confused. I don't think he really explains things clearly enough.
 
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If you think I am saying who should I follow, you are wrong. I have a tendency to see people as followers anyways. I am looking for what works and what doesn't. I have been trying to figure all this out for a long time, whereas it doesn't seem as hard for others. I do have my own sense of reality, albeit a negative one most of the time.
 
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