"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is this a good or bad sign?

smoovedude23

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Ok so Im hanging out with this girl for the first time, were sitting on the couch watching a movie. I can tell she feeling as she is leaning towards me, letting touch her, her knee was touching mine she didnt move it, showing me all her body tats, letting me touch her face (I was teasing her cheeks lol), and she playing with her hair alot. Anyway so she tells me shes cold so I jokingly say something like "I can keep your warm (laughing while say this), so I try to put my arms around like in a hugging fashion, she jerks away from real quick and says she not yet im not the touchy feely type with a huge smile and she was blushing and stuttering while she said this to me. Lol I asked her if she was blushing and she says "maybe with smile". then later slowly did the "put your arm around her shoulders move" and she didn't move and actually rested her head on my arm. When I was about leave I get up and before I can walk out the door she says something like "your just gonna up and leave like that" then she comes to the door gives me a long hug and says "it was nice hanging out with you for the first time"

I'm confused about why she would jerk away from me like that though. How should I read into this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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juicywa

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anti slut defense... I'm not a slut, see, I am resisting. If anything happens tonight it's not my fault.

also to see how you would react.
 

Pimp-sicle

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juicywa said:
anti slut defense... I'm not a slut, see, I am resisting. If anything happens tonight it's not my fault.

also to see how you would react.

LOL! Pulling her head away from his kawk would be ASD.

She was simply flirting with you and wanted to see how you would react as Juicy correctly said in the 2nd part of his post.

If you get rattled, she loses attraction; if you tease her, smile and then do it anyways, she gets more attracted and horny for you.

Stop paying attention to a woman's words and watch her actions/re-actions if you want to know how to proceed.

Never apologize for being a man and going for what you want.






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SgtSplacker

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These "super cool chicks with tattoos" have this thing sometimes that when they hear a canned cheezy line like "I can keep you warm" it just flips them out for some reason. You can't say stuff like that to them...
 

Robert28

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SgtSplacker said:
These "super cool chicks with tattoos" have this thing sometimes that when they hear a canned cheezy line like "I can keep you warm" it just flips them out for some reason. You can't say stuff like that to them...
yeah they are a different breed for sure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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