"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Southcarolina13

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Is a "don't miss me too much" text too beta?

Already been fooling around but taking off for a few days and she is steadily trying to text.

My thought was "don't miss me too much" and then not reaching out or responding until I return.

Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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way2smart

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That's Beta for sure. That will just show you are being needy.
She is the one who needs to text you those words.
 

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way2smart said:
That's Beta for sure. That will just show you are being needy.
She is the one who needs to text you those words.
Ok so what is a solid response to a "when do you go out of town text?"

Do I keep it simple and say, "take off this afternoon"

And then not reach out or respond until I get into town?
 

way2smart

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Southcarolina13 said:
Ok so what is a solid response to a "when do you go out of town text?"

Do I keep it simple and say, "take off this afternoon"

And then not reach out or respond until I get into town?
Sorry I have misunderstood your text. "Don't miss me too much" is a perfectly fine thing to say.
At first, I thought your text was like a question to her for not paying enough attention. But in reality you are telling her not to miss you much, which is great and shows you are being a challenge.
 
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