"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a good idea?

Southcarolina13

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Is a "don't miss me too much" text too beta?

Already been fooling around but taking off for a few days and she is steadily trying to text.

My thought was "don't miss me too much" and then not reaching out or responding until I return.

Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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way2smart

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That's Beta for sure. That will just show you are being needy.
She is the one who needs to text you those words.
 

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way2smart said:
That's Beta for sure. That will just show you are being needy.
She is the one who needs to text you those words.
Ok so what is a solid response to a "when do you go out of town text?"

Do I keep it simple and say, "take off this afternoon"

And then not reach out or respond until I get into town?
 

way2smart

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Southcarolina13 said:
Ok so what is a solid response to a "when do you go out of town text?"

Do I keep it simple and say, "take off this afternoon"

And then not reach out or respond until I get into town?
Sorry I have misunderstood your text. "Don't miss me too much" is a perfectly fine thing to say.
At first, I thought your text was like a question to her for not paying enough attention. But in reality you are telling her not to miss you much, which is great and shows you are being a challenge.
 
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