"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bsmith1228 said:
another lame attempt to win her back.
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don't waste time on little dramas like this
 
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bsmith1228 said:
i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
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Yes. It's another lame attempt. An extremely lame attempt.

How can you say that you were tired of letting her be your priority and then try something like this? All due respect, it sounds retarded as hell
 
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Real lame man, you and your ex broke up for a reason. You have a FWB, you should be focusing on finding more FWBs and living it up. Girls may get jealous but its not cause they like you its cause of their own selfish impulses. Man up and go plow your FWB while keeping an eye out for new talent!
 
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