"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is this a good idea

bsmith1228

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i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bsmith1228 said:
another lame attempt to win her back.
don't waste time on little dramas like this
 

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bsmith1228 said:
i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
Yes. It's another lame attempt. An extremely lame attempt.

How can you say that you were tired of letting her be your priority and then try something like this? All due respect, it sounds retarded as hell
 

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Real lame man, you and your ex broke up for a reason. You have a FWB, you should be focusing on finding more FWBs and living it up. Girls may get jealous but its not cause they like you its cause of their own selfish impulses. Man up and go plow your FWB while keeping an eye out for new talent!
 
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