"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is this a good idea

bsmith1228

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i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bsmith1228 said:
another lame attempt to win her back.
don't waste time on little dramas like this
 

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bsmith1228 said:
i have a friend with benefits, that i aquired during the process of me and my ex being in the just friend stage, i have broken every rule in the book trying to win her back, but i have had enough after realizing the i have allowed myself to let her be my priority, while allowing myself to be her option. i truly love this woman even though i shouldnt. I plan to get fwb to set me up with a very attractive woman to bring to some social events that my ex is sure to be at, does the whole jealousy thing work or is this just another lame attempt to win her back.
Yes. It's another lame attempt. An extremely lame attempt.

How can you say that you were tired of letting her be your priority and then try something like this? All due respect, it sounds retarded as hell
 

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Real lame man, you and your ex broke up for a reason. You have a FWB, you should be focusing on finding more FWBs and living it up. Girls may get jealous but its not cause they like you its cause of their own selfish impulses. Man up and go plow your FWB while keeping an eye out for new talent!
 
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