Hi guys,just put in a thread yesturday about this woman I,m seeing going to see her ex in prison for a weekend.Now today she,s telling me that an ex-boyfriend of hers that she still pals around with is asking her to go to New York with him for a day or so from Florida.I don,t recall how long ago they,ve been broken up,and she,s telling me that she,s thinking on going.Now I was at work and didn,t want to get in to a heated discussion on it,but I was furious.Is this a mind game she,s playing to test how far she can push the issue,and if it is can I get some input on how the masters would handle it.I,m just getting fed up with it already and just ready to move on,I don,t need these childish games anymore.Thanks for any and every reply...
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is this a game
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RAFCbearfilm
Don Juan
Hey Conan,
This is not a flame but the truth - If you have to say she is visiting old boyfriends in (JAIL?) for the weekend or going away with them for the weekend then she is probably not that interested.
Nothing to me is more of an indicator of low interest than her having sex with someone else.
If you are cool with that then fine, but I have to think by your posting here that you are not so, let it go or move on.
This is not a flame but the truth - If you have to say she is visiting old boyfriends in (JAIL?) for the weekend or going away with them for the weekend then she is probably not that interested.
Nothing to me is more of an indicator of low interest than her having sex with someone else.
If you are cool with that then fine, but I have to think by your posting here that you are not so, let it go or move on.
legolas
Master Don Juan
It may be a test, it may not be. In fact she dosen't even know whether it's a test or not. She's followinmg her emotions, remember? The real question is, if you were furious and didn't let her know, she's gonna assume you're ok with it, and then it becomes a test in her mind, or she gets the impression that you are somewhat needy.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Why the hell are you with this chick?
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Women have girlfriends and boyfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her girlfriend.
So I guess the next question should be, "How's it going with all those other women you're seeing at the same time you're 'seeing' this one?"
Options man, options. The only reason this woman is even a blip on your radar is because you don't have other options. Your time would be better spent exploring newer prospects than trying to untangle the head of a woman running around with the "prison crowd."
So I guess the next question should be, "How's it going with all those other women you're seeing at the same time you're 'seeing' this one?"
Options man, options. The only reason this woman is even a blip on your radar is because you don't have other options. Your time would be better spent exploring newer prospects than trying to untangle the head of a woman running around with the "prison crowd."
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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Bad positioning, definitely.
It really IS a game. A football game even. You're the ****in Center who hikes the ball off to her, and you get no action. Really. She's the quarterback with the hand tucked under your nuts, but she makes the calls and gets all the attention when the game's done.
**** THAT.
Take control. And that means... in this case... MOVE ON.
Want another analogy? Here: :kick:
It really IS a game. A football game even. You're the ****in Center who hikes the ball off to her, and you get no action. Really. She's the quarterback with the hand tucked under your nuts, but she makes the calls and gets all the attention when the game's done.
**** THAT.
Take control. And that means... in this case... MOVE ON.
Want another analogy? Here: :kick:
SoCalMike
Senior Don Juan
ex in prison? "visiting" other guys?
Holy sh*t man, run like hell! Seriously, get rid of her ASAP. You don't need this kind of BS.
She sounds like a dirty tramp to me. Trust me, I know this type - she's a wh*re and she wants you to put up with it.
Holy sh*t man, run like hell! Seriously, get rid of her ASAP. You don't need this kind of BS.
She sounds like a dirty tramp to me. Trust me, I know this type - she's a wh*re and she wants you to put up with it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
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