"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this a friendzone text or just some casual womenese “she says what thinks is right”

BadBoy89

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Consider how the mother hen in the club is the most abrasive and confrontational and concerned primarily with power games more than living in the moment. I don't think that changes.
You are right.

I meant the authorities / society.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Redwolf

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I’m different than most on here but I wouldn’t even go out with her again. She hasn’t friendzoned you but you’re on the path, that’s why I wouldn’t waste my time or money bothering with another date.
I agree. I would just state your interest in her and tell her to reach out when she's ready. After that remove your attention from her.
 
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