Is this a friendzone text or just some casual womenese “she says what thinks is right”

[LARaiders85]

Yes. Until she gives in or tells you to stop, but she has to tell you stop with her actions, not her words.

Her words could be saying "no, stop" but her tone of voice and body language could be saying hell yeah give me some vitamin D!!!!!

in the US, you are looking at serious criminal liability if you dont take the words VERY seriously.

 

[LARaiders85]

She just left my apartment, she came over and I made some ****tails for us. We talked all night, music and made out. I can tell she likes me by the way she kisses me. She said she couldn’t spend the night “had to meet her gf early in the am”

She’s going away to her home state Tennessee for the next month so I won’t be seeing her for at least a month and a half.

That should be enough time to back off and let her miss me for a bit

brutal. No, she won't be missing you

 

[Dr.Suave]

in the US, you are looking at serious criminal liability if you dont take the words VERY seriously.

If you say so. You guys should be careful then.

 

[BadBoy89]

in the US, you are looking at serious criminal liability if you dont take the words VERY seriously.

If she is fertile and / or hot.

If she is over 38 or fat, you got leeway. They don’t care as much then,

 

[Bingo-Player]

Whenever you get this, always agree and amplify. "Yes, I know what you mean and I think we need to dial back how often we're seeing each other. I feel like this is moving way too fast." Then stop texting altogether until your next date and become very unavailable in general. Watch her head spin off.

Regardless, this chick is feeling out her options and I wouldn't do anything more with her other than give her plate status. She clearly wants to play the field.

i would have just done the above

 

[LARaiders85]

If she is fertile and / or hot.

If she is over 38 or fat, you got leeway. They don’t care as much then,

Consider how the mother hen in the club is the most abrasive and confrontational and concerned primarily with power games more than living in the moment. I don't think that changes.

 

[BadBoy89]

Consider how the mother hen in the club is the most abrasive and confrontational and concerned primarily with power games more than living in the moment. I don't think that changes.

You are right.

I meant the authorities / society.

 

[Redwolf]

I’m different than most on here but I wouldn’t even go out with her again. She hasn’t friendzoned you but you’re on the path, that’s why I wouldn’t waste my time or money bothering with another date.

I agree. I would just state your interest in her and tell her to reach out when she's ready. After that remove your attention from her.