"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this a failure or can it be salvaged?

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yul

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Hi,

met this girl last week she was talking on the phone at the corner of the street. I smiled to her and she smiled back.

I stopped walking and asked her out right away.
We spent the evening with together, went for a beer and she called her lady friend too.

She gave me her phone # and we tried to set up another date.

She is very busy because she is moving her appartment and changing jobs etc...

2 days ago we get together again. She was short on time and invited me with her aunt (from another city) to go for a beer.

I end the evening at her appartment but since her aunt was there, she couldnt come back to my place either.

She takes me down to the lobby, kisses me (with tongue) and tells me to call her in 3 weeks because she will be very BUSY.

What does this mean?

I know I might have told her more than once that I thought she was beautiful (in a non AFC way) but that can't possibly lead to this ending?

Is it that maybe she REALLY is busy? She may just be "mildly" interested?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't call her in these 3 weeks. Call her then, and remember to not be needy. IF she doesn't answer, don't call her back. Voila.
 
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