"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this a failure or can it be salvaged?

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yul

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Hi,

met this girl last week she was talking on the phone at the corner of the street. I smiled to her and she smiled back.

I stopped walking and asked her out right away.
We spent the evening with together, went for a beer and she called her lady friend too.

She gave me her phone # and we tried to set up another date.

She is very busy because she is moving her appartment and changing jobs etc...

2 days ago we get together again. She was short on time and invited me with her aunt (from another city) to go for a beer.

I end the evening at her appartment but since her aunt was there, she couldnt come back to my place either.

She takes me down to the lobby, kisses me (with tongue) and tells me to call her in 3 weeks because she will be very BUSY.

What does this mean?

I know I might have told her more than once that I thought she was beautiful (in a non AFC way) but that can't possibly lead to this ending?

Is it that maybe she REALLY is busy? She may just be "mildly" interested?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't call her in these 3 weeks. Call her then, and remember to not be needy. IF she doesn't answer, don't call her back. Voila.
 
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