"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this a bad thing??

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Today i kind of cheated, because i didn't feel i had what it took to be a DJ. My situation was that i wanted to talk to a girl who sat at a table with 4 other friends. So i was standing behind her 2 other friends at line and i talked to them and asked them if they could be friendly if i talked to 1 of their friends. Well they were very friendly about it, they got my name and 1 invited me over to sit at the table(which i was hesitant about at 1st). But i did sit over there. Turns out the girls wern't so scary as i thought. The girl i was interested in didn't seem to be interested in me though, i tried to start a conversation by talking about a friend of hers. i read something on here about fidning common ground and talking about people you both know. But she said she was no longer friends with that person and didn't want to talk about then she went back to chatting with the other girls, then she left to go somewhere. But 1 of the other girls said i could sit there anytime i wanted to and she looks good so idk. I was thinking, maybe this can help me be a bit more comfortable with talking to girls, but is this a bad thing though??? Cause i know this probably doesn't live up to DJ standards.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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doesn't seem to bad but ur in the friends zone with these chicks automatically.
 
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lol don't give up already, having these chicks as ur friends can lead to u being alone with them to talk. Make your moves then.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Comeback kid said:
Well, i guess the whole "Dj" thing just doesn't work for me then.
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dont expect to be a master at it on your first few tries. take baby steps. u gotta gain experience. which will require lots of rejections.
 
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