"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this a bad thing??

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Today i kind of cheated, because i didn't feel i had what it took to be a DJ. My situation was that i wanted to talk to a girl who sat at a table with 4 other friends. So i was standing behind her 2 other friends at line and i talked to them and asked them if they could be friendly if i talked to 1 of their friends. Well they were very friendly about it, they got my name and 1 invited me over to sit at the table(which i was hesitant about at 1st). But i did sit over there. Turns out the girls wern't so scary as i thought. The girl i was interested in didn't seem to be interested in me though, i tried to start a conversation by talking about a friend of hers. i read something on here about fidning common ground and talking about people you both know. But she said she was no longer friends with that person and didn't want to talk about then she went back to chatting with the other girls, then she left to go somewhere. But 1 of the other girls said i could sit there anytime i wanted to and she looks good so idk. I was thinking, maybe this can help me be a bit more comfortable with talking to girls, but is this a bad thing though??? Cause i know this probably doesn't live up to DJ standards.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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doesn't seem to bad but ur in the friends zone with these chicks automatically.
 
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lol don't give up already, having these chicks as ur friends can lead to u being alone with them to talk. Make your moves then.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Comeback kid said:
Well, i guess the whole "Dj" thing just doesn't work for me then.
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dont expect to be a master at it on your first few tries. take baby steps. u gotta gain experience. which will require lots of rejections.
 
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