Ok first off I appreciate any advice you all could give me. Lately I've been going through a bit of a lean patch and havent found any girl I wanted to pursue. Was out last weekend and got in touch with somewhat of an old flame. Being bored and having had slightly to much to drink I decided to kino her and see where things went. Kino worked well, everthing went smooth and she now likes me again. Anyway this is the question I pose. Seeing as how I was only bored and dont like her in anyway shape or form should I still just mess around with her even though she may get emotionally attached and I will want to leave soon even though it could crush her. Shes definetly not bad looking theres just no connection there thats all. I ask because the majority of my mates think its slack
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Is this A bad idea?
- Thread starter jocca
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
If you're just looking for a booty call, find someone else. There's no need to have this chick hanging on you like lint!jocca said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
People (especially kids) tend to find trouble when they're bored. Consider making your actions deliberate because it's something that you truly want to do, not because there's nothing else to do.