Ok first off I appreciate any advice you all could give me. Lately I've been going through a bit of a lean patch and havent found any girl I wanted to pursue. Was out last weekend and got in touch with somewhat of an old flame. Being bored and having had slightly to much to drink I decided to kino her and see where things went. Kino worked well, everthing went smooth and she now likes me again. Anyway this is the question I pose. Seeing as how I was only bored and dont like her in anyway shape or form should I still just mess around with her even though she may get emotionally attached and I will want to leave soon even though it could crush her. Shes definetly not bad looking theres just no connection there thats all. I ask because the majority of my mates think its slack
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Is this A bad idea?
- Thread starter jocca
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
If you're just looking for a booty call, find someone else. There's no need to have this chick hanging on you like lint!jocca said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
People (especially kids) tend to find trouble when they're bored. Consider making your actions deliberate because it's something that you truly want to do, not because there's nothing else to do.