"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is thinking about it too much?

Frenchconnection

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Is constantly thinking and re evaluating/ analizing your "game" actually may be detrimental because you're just thinking too much and not doing it naturally?


I guess you could always learn and improve/ practice so that it can become second nature. But sometimes I get too deep into thoughts about it, which results in analizing while I'm "trying to pick up a chick".

I'm actually working on changing my frame of mind from "trying to pick up a chick" to just meeting and making a new friend (with some flirting and such).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Analyzing your game is a good thing... But, you don't want to do it too much... Try to put yourself in situations where your putting your game on instead of thinking about it too much.
 

Frenchconnection

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bachelor said:
Analyzing your game is a good thing... But, you don't want to do it too much... Try to put yourself in situations where your putting your game on instead of thinking about it too much.

Thanks guys good advice!:rockon:
 
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