"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is thinking about it too much?

Frenchconnection

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Is constantly thinking and re evaluating/ analizing your "game" actually may be detrimental because you're just thinking too much and not doing it naturally?


I guess you could always learn and improve/ practice so that it can become second nature. But sometimes I get too deep into thoughts about it, which results in analizing while I'm "trying to pick up a chick".

I'm actually working on changing my frame of mind from "trying to pick up a chick" to just meeting and making a new friend (with some flirting and such).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bachelor

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Analyzing your game is a good thing... But, you don't want to do it too much... Try to put yourself in situations where your putting your game on instead of thinking about it too much.
 

Frenchconnection

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bachelor said:
Analyzing your game is a good thing... But, you don't want to do it too much... Try to put yourself in situations where your putting your game on instead of thinking about it too much.

Thanks guys good advice!:rockon:
 
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