"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is there hope for me after my horrifying activites in the past.

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Hello, my name is Bob and i am 28 years old. I have been a recluse to women for 2 years because of my stalking past and i wonder if the female community around me might be able to forget or look past me for what i did. ITs tough to say this, but here goes...

I wont mince words. i used to stalk, and was eventually arrested. Not a single girl but multiple women at a time. I would do the normal following and calling and stuff, but in my madness at times, i would aggresivley stalk. I showed up at one girls window every friday night and look in her window until she saw me, then i would stretch the skin on my face and make horrifying faces and let out a gutteral howl. She would run for the phone to call the police and i ran off to the back of the football field a few miles away and phoned her with frightening messages (only to scare i never thought of acting on anything).

This is the most severe example, and everyone in the community knows about it. my question is, will i EVER find a date in my town or is it time i relocate?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This thread is most likely a troll, but if not, there are problems with this guy.

To seriously offer you help and a true solution, I need to dive deeper into the context and situation, and specifically, your mind. Three questions for starters.

Why do you feel the need to stalk the women?

Do you become obsessed with these women?

How are your relationships with both of your parents?

Before you relocate, you must break down your old behavior and reconstruct new patterns.
 

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Bobby333 said:
it is A TROLL **** THIS FORUM
That solves that. :moon:

Are you a feminist or a frustrasted chump who can't get laid?
 

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relocate and stop being a stalker.

edit: don't move near me, don't come near my sister.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I normally don't do this, but he's already admitted to being a troll, so what the hell.
Bobby333 said:
Hello, my name is Bob and i am 28 years old. I have been a recluse to women for 2 years because of my stalking past and i wonder if the female community around me might be able to forget or look past me for what i did. ITs tough to say this, but here goes...

I wont mince words. i used to stalk, and was eventually arrested. Not a single girl but multiple women at a time. I would do the normal following and calling and stuff, but in my madness at times, i would aggresivley stalk. I showed up at one girls window every friday night and look in her window until she saw me, then i would stretch the skin on my face and make horrifying faces and let out a gutteral howl. Her mom got scared, she said "You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in bel Air." I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, The license plate said "fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, But I thought "Nah forget it, Yo home to Bel Air." I pulled up to the house about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabby "Yo holmes, smell ya later." Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air.
 
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He was a member but was banned - probably PR_L! :rolleyes:
 
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