"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is there hope for me after my horrifying activites in the past.

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Hello, my name is Bob and i am 28 years old. I have been a recluse to women for 2 years because of my stalking past and i wonder if the female community around me might be able to forget or look past me for what i did. ITs tough to say this, but here goes...

I wont mince words. i used to stalk, and was eventually arrested. Not a single girl but multiple women at a time. I would do the normal following and calling and stuff, but in my madness at times, i would aggresivley stalk. I showed up at one girls window every friday night and look in her window until she saw me, then i would stretch the skin on my face and make horrifying faces and let out a gutteral howl. She would run for the phone to call the police and i ran off to the back of the football field a few miles away and phoned her with frightening messages (only to scare i never thought of acting on anything).

This is the most severe example, and everyone in the community knows about it. my question is, will i EVER find a date in my town or is it time i relocate?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This thread is most likely a troll, but if not, there are problems with this guy.

To seriously offer you help and a true solution, I need to dive deeper into the context and situation, and specifically, your mind. Three questions for starters.

Why do you feel the need to stalk the women?

Do you become obsessed with these women?

How are your relationships with both of your parents?

Before you relocate, you must break down your old behavior and reconstruct new patterns.
 

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Bobby333 said:
it is A TROLL **** THIS FORUM
That solves that. :moon:

Are you a feminist or a frustrasted chump who can't get laid?
 

int3l

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relocate and stop being a stalker.

edit: don't move near me, don't come near my sister.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I normally don't do this, but he's already admitted to being a troll, so what the hell.
Bobby333 said:
Hello, my name is Bob and i am 28 years old. I have been a recluse to women for 2 years because of my stalking past and i wonder if the female community around me might be able to forget or look past me for what i did. ITs tough to say this, but here goes...

I wont mince words. i used to stalk, and was eventually arrested. Not a single girl but multiple women at a time. I would do the normal following and calling and stuff, but in my madness at times, i would aggresivley stalk. I showed up at one girls window every friday night and look in her window until she saw me, then i would stretch the skin on my face and make horrifying faces and let out a gutteral howl. Her mom got scared, she said "You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in bel Air." I whistled for a cab, and when it came near, The license plate said "fresh" and it had dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, But I thought "Nah forget it, Yo home to Bel Air." I pulled up to the house about seven or eight, and I yelled to the cabby "Yo holmes, smell ya later." Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there, To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air.
 
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He was a member but was banned - probably PR_L! :rolleyes:
 
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