"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is there ever a time you won't approach her?

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BongDuy

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I was in starbucks with my two friends getting some homework done and i noticed this really cute girl who worked there was on break. she was on a labtop on a webcam, talking to some friends or something, and she was also accompanied by two guys who were just talking. I was thinking of just approaching with an opinion opener, but i just felt like it wouldn't flow well so i ended up not doing crap.


Is there ever a situtation where approaching should be avoided? or was i just being chicken :eek:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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horaholic

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Its just being chicken. Im not baggin, cuz I suck as well, if not worse, but what we should do is approach on sight whenever we see a good looking chick who isnt obviously with their SO (most pua's wont even stop there either.)

Actually after rereading that, I dont know about approaching girls on laptops with webcams on, but there is always a way.

What you could have done (obviously not interrupting her online convo) was ask her about the webcam, and how it works, or her laptop or something innocent like that.
 
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