"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is there ever a time you won't approach her?

BongDuy

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I was in starbucks with my two friends getting some homework done and i noticed this really cute girl who worked there was on break. she was on a labtop on a webcam, talking to some friends or something, and she was also accompanied by two guys who were just talking. I was thinking of just approaching with an opinion opener, but i just felt like it wouldn't flow well so i ended up not doing crap.


Is there ever a situtation where approaching should be avoided? or was i just being chicken :eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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horaholic

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Its just being chicken. Im not baggin, cuz I suck as well, if not worse, but what we should do is approach on sight whenever we see a good looking chick who isnt obviously with their SO (most pua's wont even stop there either.)

Actually after rereading that, I dont know about approaching girls on laptops with webcams on, but there is always a way.

What you could have done (obviously not interrupting her online convo) was ask her about the webcam, and how it works, or her laptop or something innocent like that.
 
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