Is there ever a time you won't approach her?

[BongDuy]

I was in starbucks with my two friends getting some homework done and i noticed this really cute girl who worked there was on break. she was on a labtop on a webcam, talking to some friends or something, and she was also accompanied by two guys who were just talking. I was thinking of just approaching with an opinion opener, but i just felt like it wouldn't flow well so i ended up not doing crap.


Is there ever a situtation where approaching should be avoided? or was i just being chicken

 

[horaholic]

Its just being chicken. Im not baggin, cuz I suck as well, if not worse, but what we should do is approach on sight whenever we see a good looking chick who isnt obviously with their SO (most pua's wont even stop there either.)

Actually after rereading that, I dont know about approaching girls on laptops with webcams on, but there is always a way.

What you could have done (obviously not interrupting her online convo) was ask her about the webcam, and how it works, or her laptop or something innocent like that.

 

[BongDuy]

thanks for the honesty, as long as its not flaming or anything, i dont mind people telling me straight up what i did wrong.


Regret is def worse than rejection by atleast 100 folds.