“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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is there anyway to salvage???

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me and this girl hand been talking and hanging out for a bit, she started asking more about me and it was obvious her IL was rising fast. Went on a official date and it was nice said she had a great time bleh bleh. week later hadn't talked but felt like she was taking shots on social media(friend zone comments). we just talked and she seemed annoyed and more social media jabs "just let it go"... am i completely ****ed for this situation or if i just cut all contact is there possibility to save something :confused: :confused: :confused:

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the first was something about the friend zone an people taking it out of context and the other was just let it go
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She says let it go but IMO I'd use this as an excuse to escalate. I'd meet up and kiss her. Start with a peck on the lips and grab her ass then pull back a little.
 

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Ask her out. Don't worry so much about the context of what she's saying. Women say one then when they mean another. Judge her actions not her words.
 

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Renegade357 said:
Why do you read the crap she writes on social media anyway? Just ask her out again and see if she says yes. Then you gotta kiss her.
let me give a more accurate timeline.. i'm a newbie soo excuse my afc mistakes...

when on the date played disinterested and she tried to make sure i was(good), held hands but didn kiss her(rookie mistake i know), she said she hand a good time, took her back to her place and when home to charge my phone before i headed back out.

when charging my phone i was checking twitter and social media looking for the next move for the night. i came across her twitter and saw her RT a comment about being in the friend zone. i ignored it, went out, drank (usual s**t).

the next night said since she had a good time we should do it again she said "sure dude". i said you don't sound enthused so we don't have to(stupid of me). week goes by don't talk, see her around she's very flirty(pushing me and touching my clothes) say don't be a stranger an walk away.

5 days later asks if she want to meet up she says cool and we joke a round a bit, but then (BIGG FVCKING MISTAKE ALERT) i took it too far and said something like "you should be interested and if not you will be" to which she countered i suppose nothing is impossible.

(it gets worse) i asked if she was curving(like rejecting in a sense) me then proceeded to send the definition of what it was... "i suppose it was" she says, then heads back to social media to say "just let it go".. so instead of taking it further down the hole of AFCdom i just ask is it me of have things been kind of awkward... she said she guesses, and that they've been(which is how it started)..

soo now writing it out it seems extremely comical in a not-so-funny kind of way... i just wouldn let my ego go out without a flame...
so am i screwed completely in this
 

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What i got from the story:

Met a girl. Didnt escalate and showed disinterest. Date ended , no kiss close. See her facebook/twitter about her saying something about being friend zoned. I get insecure and say stupid things.


Stop doubting yourself and asking so many desperate questions. You missed a lot of flirting oppurtunities as well. I would withdraw attention since you blew it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On the date we held my hands, she interlocked finger when my hand was on her waist and tried to reengage me in the nights events... I didn't kiss her out of trying not to be too aggressive. Was my mistake not closing? i'm just tryna gather the most opinions so i can utilizes in the future.. or if i can still mess with ole girl. thank again DJ's
 

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Tom S-j said:
On the date we held my hands, she interlocked finger when my hand was on her waist and tried to reengage me in the nights events... I didn't kiss her out of trying not to be too aggressive. Was my mistake not closing? i'm just tryna gather the most opinions so i can utilizes in the future.. or if i can still mess with ole girl. thank again DJ's
Dude, you acted like a weak little AFC you are. Women love dominant men. If you had your hand on her waist you should have went in for the kill asap. ie kiss her, maybe put your hand in between her legs and start rubbing her cvnt. If she accepts then you should fvk her that night. If not then back off and move on. This is aggression to the max. this way you dont end of thinking about what you did and posting stupid questions like this on SS.
 
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