Dhoulmagus
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I'm sick of dealing with them and it's not worth the time and effort to pursue thrm. However, my sex drive is really high. Im better off pulling drunk girls at parties.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is there anyway to become less attracted to women
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sylvester the cat
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Go gay. Women are just effiminate men anyway.
stevo
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Why would you want to be less attracted to women?
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Dhoulmagus
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Ya, but finding another is too much effort. It took 4 months of drought before I met my ex gf. I've tried Tinder, bars, and the parties here are full of guys. I'm not approaching random women at a mall either cause that's annoying.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.