Dhoulmagus
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I'm sick of dealing with them and it's not worth the time and effort to pursue thrm. However, my sex drive is really high. Im better off pulling drunk girls at parties.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is there anyway to become less attracted to women
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sylvester the cat
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Go gay. Women are just effiminate men anyway.
stevo
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Why would you want to be less attracted to women?
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Women are worth the time. Dude what are you talking about.
If you're straight, you should want women.
For every girl there's an amount of headache you can tolerate from her. If you have one maximizing that amount, simply find another.
The answer is not to be less attracted to them, the answer is control your attraction and find someone worth it.
The more you focus strictly on what they dont do right, the more you get closer to the border of hating women, that's not the way. No one is perfect not even DJs however find who's imperfection is tolerable. There is no way all the single girls in your city isnt right for you. No Way!
Dhoulmagus
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Ya, but finding another is too much effort. It took 4 months of drought before I met my ex gf. I've tried Tinder, bars, and the parties here are full of guys. I'm not approaching random women at a mall either cause that's annoying.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.